The Reason Why

To ask why I did what I did is to ask why I was born. No matter what answer you give or get, no answer will ever be all there is to it.

If you truly want to understand, do not ask “Why?”. But instead ask, “Who?”.

Asking “Why?” changes nothing, and only allows the pain to continue. But, asking “Who?” will change everything, and turns the pain into understanding, so we can grow, and so we can heal.

The answer is who I am, not why.

You are who I am.

And that, is why.